Beautiful boned corset, black patterned material,ruffles, lace up back, thong,

I believe this is from China, it says 4X and I went by my measurements, but the lacing would be too far apart for me. It is beautiful and I'm very sad it doesn't fit! It is boned, there is a scroll type pattern on the black, lace up back and hook front closure. Pictures show everything. Matching thong. I believe this could be reversible because I LOVE the inside plaid print as well, if it fit me I would have worn both ways.I am going to do the best I can at measuring but please look closely! I would say this would fit more a 1X than a 4X. I am a 2X and ordered the 4 by their guide. This does lace up so adjustable to a degree, but I would go by waist more than anything. or smallest part of abdomen.Very top side to side, put all the way together - 40smallest part/waist - 37Bottom - 40Length - 17Thong is just elastic with the triangle of cloth.Top - 7Length to point - 8No refunds given unless obvious oversight on my part! I ship USPS and as much as I would like, I have no control over the postal service once the package is out of my hands, if you would like insurance please notify me and I will add it to your invoice. I try to ship heavier items in priority flat packages whenever possible, this may require stuffing the item, but it is quicker and cheaper. Please plan to pay within 3 days of product, I believe if you buy on something it is courtesy to get it paid. I will ship within 2 business days of payment is clearing paypal. I will combine shipping and give at least a 20% discount off the total shipping charges, the more items purchased the higher discount I try to give up to 40% off total shipping for 4 or more items. I do my utmost best to describe items accurately and take pictures, but unfortunately there is no way to try things on and if there is a question remember I DO NOT refund! I buy off here knowing that I am buying as is and online, please remember my items are as is, I may miss a small tear or a snag, but I do my best to look over the items. NO international shipping unless I am messaged and I provide you the outrageous shipping charge.Some items I do not provide measurements, they are pretty standard with the brand name. If you are unsure, please shoot me a message and I will give any measurement requested, do this BEFORE you buy, since I have a NO refund policy. Thanks